"I'll do it myself."

There’s a lie that’s popular in our industry.
Actually, it’s popular everywhere:
“If you want something done right, do it yourself.”

Stylists, barbers, beauty pros—we’re some of the worst at this. We pride ourselves on being self-made, self-taught, self-sufficient. We hustle. We don’t need help. We figure it out.

But here’s the truth most won’t say out loud:

That “do it alone” energy? It’s killing your spirit.

Because you can’t fight a spiritual battle with human strategies.
And you can’t walk a Kingdom calling without a Kingdom community.

The Beauty Industry is Loud.

And if you’re trying to walk with Jesus in it, you already know—it’s friction all day.

It’s feeling that tension between speaking God's truth... and keeping clients.
It’s watching peers celebrate compromise... while you wrestle with conviction.
It’s being surrounded by “love and light” language that sounds spiritual, but ain’t rooted in Christ.

And then there’s you… standing behind a chair, smiling, nodding, praying silently you don’t drown in the noise.

I’ve been there.
I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the only one trying to do this God’s way.

But let me say this clearly:
You were never meant to do it alone.

You Need People Who Get It.

Not just church friends.

Not just coworkers.

But people who understand the specific tension of being a Christian in the beauty industry.

People who know the grind. Who know the spiritual warfare. Who understand what it’s like to carry clients’ emotional baggage while also trying to stay grounded in the Word.

You need people who can call you out, pray you through, and walk with you.
You need mentorship that speaks to your real life—not just your Sunday life.

That’s Why I Built S.E.A. CHANGE.

It’s not a hype group. It’s not a mastermind.
It’s mentorship.
Weekly coaching. Real accountability. Scripture. Strategy. And other beauty professionals who are done doing it alone.

Inside S.E.A. CHANGE, we talk business. We talk burnout. We talk about what it actually looks like to walk with Jesus behind the chair. And we do it- together.

Because isolation doesn’t make you strong.
It makes you vulnerable.
And the enemy loves nothing more than a burnt-out believer too ashamed to ask for help.

So if you’ve been saying “I’m good”—but you’re exhausted…
If you’ve been showing up with a smile but secretly carrying the weight of your convictions with no outlet…

It’s time to stop doing this alone.

You’re not weak for needing support.
You’re wise for seeking it.

P.S. If this hit you in the gut, good. That’s the Spirit talking. Check out the S.E.A. CHANGE Mentorship Program. Let’s stop pretending we’re fine—and start walking in real growth, together.